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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP. Slept poorly and woke up feeling so resentful I didn't want to get out of bed. I am considering asking him to go stay somewhere else for a period of time (unsure how long). I am really angry that he put our daughter at risk like that and I want to see real progress on a treatment plan/program if he's going to be in our home. Also I need to do some thinking. It is so frustrating that nothing happens unless I catch him, I can't live my life being constantly vigilant of his drinking.

Anyone who's been there - would it be a bad idea to ask him to stay with a friend or family? He could still come by to see our toddler. I don't want to break up our family and still hope to work things out but how things have been is not sustainable and I feel like crap.[/quote]

Of course you can/should ask him to leave. You deserve space to think things through. And you should not give one thought to whether he will drink more or less outside of your home — it isn’t your problem. Of course, you should help effectuate safe ways to see you kid while he stays somewhere else.[/quote]

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