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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. It was major depression. I had an aunt who was brutally murdered when I was a teen and that really scarred me. It is still unsolved and I had a lot of issues surrounding it. That and my home life and upbringing. It was filled with violence, drugs, and sexual abuse. I was left to feel unwanted as a kid and that really put me with low self-esteem and a feeling of very little self worth. It was very difficult and hard and I really turned to food as my addiction. It’s not the best choice but I think it’s better than drugs ( never done) or drinking ( rarely drink). I grew up in a household where nutrition wasn’t important ( my parents and siblings are skinny) and I didn’t know anything about it. I went through therapy and I’m much better. I found the right doctors and treated my PCOS and weight started falling off. I don’t think I will ever go back to my old ways because I never want to feel like that again. I’ve been able to maintain my weight for two years.

For the fatphobic comments. I’m not fat phobic, but I also don’t agree with the “ health at every size” thing going on today. It’s important to love yourself, but obesity is not healthy, and we need to stop acting like it is. Being obese is a health problem and we shouldn’t be normalizing it. I don’t agree with fat shaming or hurting anyone, but we need to stop with the obesity is fine that is going on today. I want a fit partner because I want someone who is also into healthy eating and fitness. It’s important I have a partner who shares those same values.

I’m not sure I want kids. If I have them, good, but I’m fine not having kids. [/quote]

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