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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Having small kids and taking care of them is the most isolating and tiring experience even when there is no pandemic. People need to also understand that having more than 1 or 2 kids is not easy. No one owes the raising of your kids to you. The parents have to raise them. If they are lucky they will have paid or unpaid caregivers at various times but it is not a guarantee. If you cannot do it on your own and do it well then don't have kids. [/quote] Oh shut up. [/quote] This poster isn’t wrong though…when the going gets tough, raising kids is entirely on the parents.[/quote] Absolutely. But do you understand how many people had to work in person over pandemic that had no childcare resources? Our children are absolutely our responsibility…but no one has 11 back up plans for plague. It’s so dismissive. [/quote] In CRT scholarship, this attitude is evidence of white supremacy culture. It reflects rugged individualism (everyone is on their own, if you didn't have backup, backup backup pandemic childcare plans you are an irresponsible person), power hoarding and either or thinking. These people think that if it wasn't a problem for me, then it wasn't a problem at all. There's no sense of the greater good and no willingness to listen to the experiences of others, only blame and judgment. The resulting isolation pushes all of us further apart at a time when shared values and concern for the common good are needed the most. [/quote] Rugged individualism isn't white supremacy culture. CRT scholarship is trash. I'm on board with the greater good stuff and listening to others.[/quote] You don't have to consider individualism in the context of CRT. But the ideas that every person is on their own and that any struggle is the result of bad choices are antithetic to justice and equity. [/quote]
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