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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In no other aspect of your life would you allow someone to enthusiastically and swiftly cash your checks for thousands of $s regularly but won't allow any questions whatsoever about the product from the payor,  that's a product that shouldn't be purchased and needs to go under. 
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Sorry, but this is bullshit.

Any contract signed by an 18 year old is their responsibility, regardless of where they get the money.  [b]Kiddo buys a car with your money the dealer won't talk to you about it.  [/b]Same for kiddos bank account or credit card, even if it is money from you.  Certainly anything medical.  You might not "allow" it with an auto or real estate purchase, but this time you did, so it is on you.  Don't like it, don't pay.

If you can't trust your kid, maybe you shouldn't anyway.

This entire thread has revealed a lot about certain methods of parenting that the posters must have been unaware would reveal.  Astounding.[/quote]

This analogy doesn’t make the point you think it does. Parents pay the college directly. The FAFSA looks at the parents’ assets, not the child’s, unless the child has been emancipated.  That’s analogous to a parent co-signing a loan, or actually buying the car themselves and letting the child drive it. The car dealer is absolutely dealing with the parents, not the child.

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>>> unless the child has been emancipated.

Which basically never happens/can't happen.

>>> The car dealer is absolutely dealing with the parents, not the child.

And, the car dealer has the Feds helping make the steal...[/quote]

I dont know what you are talking about.  An 18 year old is not a child in any state, and is capable of signing any contract.  For a credit card, for instance.  Or their job.  You could not be more wrong.[/quote]

Have your 18-year old, unemancipated, kid tell the college that they should get financial aid because their rich parents don’t want to fill out the FAFSA and see how that goes. [/quote]

Not sure what FAFSA has to do with my point you responded to, but whatever.  [/quote]

Then you don’t understand how the FAFSA works, you’re not very bright or you’re being purposefully obtuse.[/quote]

DP.
1. Negotiate with your child to waive FERPA, or
2. Deal with the university following the federal law, as they are required, or
3. Student has option of unsubsidized federal loans.

There are options.[/quote]

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