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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry you are dealing with this, OP. I grew up with a father who abused hard drugs and then switched to alcohol a bit later in life. It ended up killing him. I was becoming a problem drinker myself until I reigned it in. It sounds to me that it is likely that your DH has a problem. I can almost gurantee that he has had more drinks in secret than you know about. I would tell him you are concerned and would ask him how he feels about his drinking. Obviously he may lie, but based on how he responded when you asked him about the wine, it sounds like he may be upfront with you. For starters, I would absolutely recommend that you both cut out all alcohol for 30 days and let hime know you are planning to go to al-anon meetings. There is a medicine you can take that drastically reduces the urge to drink. Maybe he would start with that. Good luck.[/quote]
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