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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn’t have a boyfriend until I was 17, but we had sex in the back of my car often. 
If my daughter has a boyfriend at 15, who is not yet driving, I would say no unless I knew the parents and they were on the same page in regards to an adult being home and generally aware of what was happening ( doors open, not hanging out in bedrooms, etc) 
They are young. You need to be really in top of it. Asking a 15 year old to be on top of contraception and safe sex if asking a lot. Remove the possibility for as long as possible![/quote]

Nobody said the girl should spend time in the boys bedroom or when the parents are not home.

People are saying if the parents are home they may still have sex, if you don’t let them visit eat other at their own homes they will meet up at friends, or the mall, or the movies, or the woods… but they will meet up and the might still have sex.

You are right. A 15 year old can not navigate this without help, help from a grown educated adult. Many would argue 27 is too young wait till 19.

The fact is if she is going to have sex she is going to have sex.

You need to talk to her about safe sex, contraceptives, STIs, consent, being used, emotions that come with sex.

You should say you are too young!

Just making meaningless “boundaries” and sending her off without the tools to navigate this very confusing choice she will have issues.

Head out of sand![/quote]

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