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[quote=Anonymous]Oof. This is a tough situation. As others have pointed out, this is your DH’s journey to make…you really can’t force someone to see the light. I feel like I’ve been where he is, and it took me a long time to realize that moderation is like exponentially more difficult than sobriety. The mental energy you have to give to drinking while still trying to follow the “rules” is overwhelming, and I think that’s what your DH is experiencing now. I guess I would just gently suggest giving actual sobriety a go, acknowledging that you can’t force him to do anything…but that the current situation cannot continue. And just let him reflect on that and come to it on his own.[/quote]
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