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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd also say self confidence is important as many wonderful women who have low self esteem waste years in dead end of toxic relationships while the good guys are getting snatched up by their more confident peers.[/quote]

[/b]This is so, so true. It doesn’t have to be social confidence, but women who don’t feel like they are worth the love and respect of a decent partner rarely get it. [b][/quote]

+1 Just realized this has been my issue….[/quote]

It’s hard to change as an adult. You can’t help your FOO[/quote]

Seriously working on it and am hopeful![/quote]

Thank you for bringing up FOO.  The poster who was talking about doormat step-ford wives in her UMC circle really got to me.  It is like she exists in a world where abuse (emotional, physical, coercive control etc) doesn’t  exist or she is willing to turn a blind eye to it.  I have seen abuse in marriages at all SES levels from politicians to stock brokers to drug addicts.  Telling women that the “highest value” women who “do well” are pretty, easy going and let their BFs/husbands “shine” is paving the way for abusers.  I understand that that poster may truly believe what they are saying, but coming from an abusive FOO, that is a loaded profile to throw upon women.  [/quote]

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