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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in a similar situation as your husband -- did the lions share of child care during covid while my husband worked, do project based work that comes and goes, and picked up an addictive exercise habit this year that absolutely saved my sanity. Like your husband I too have been exercising in the evenings because I don't want to go out in the heat. It is so wonderful sometimes I get lost in that feeling of freedom and the idea of returning for my parental duties. I am aware that I need to keep pulling my weight and try to make sure dinner is ready before I go, I do all grocery, schlepping of kids...

It's been a hard year for all of us. Talk to him and communicate clearly what you need. I totally understand why he is doing what he is doing and it helped me when my husband started asking for his exercise time as well. I'm careful not to go every day.

I am not having an affair!

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This, it may be as simple as him pushing his workout back by 60 minutes so its AFTER the kids go to bed, and then taking an extra rest day so he's not gone all the time.  There's compromise here in the middle.  [/quote]

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