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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Bring food for the kids! That way, if dinner is late, you can feed them, and of course you're free to bring them home and put them to bed on your schedule. Done. [/quote]

This. Easy and obvious solution. [/quote]

OP is a troublemaker putting this on her SIL when she really ought to be providing food for her own kids. Why would SIL not feed the kids? It's not her responsibility. [/quote]

This is ridiculous. SIL is undermining here. OP is trying to have the uncle over to her house and SIL keeps overstepping. For whatever reason, this keeps being acceptable to DH. So OP should bring food to feed her kids early. But no way are the kids getting good one on one with the uncle in this situation. [/quote]

What's ridiculous is you pinning this all on SIL.

BIL1 is an adult who supposedly can't stand SIL... if he REALLY wanted to have this "good one on one" with his niece & nephew,  he'd make out happen.

He's an adult, he doesn't have to listen to someone he can't stand... what excuse is there now for him not going over there more often?
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Thanks, but he's taking the subway out tomorrow.  He is very non-confrontational and SIL is major confrontational.  Every time we see SIL with her husband, she's yelling at him.  It's so unpleasant.  BIL1 stayed holed up in his bedroom working while he was there to avoid SIL.  BIL2 was on a work trip for part of the time.
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