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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry, I didn't read the whole thread - were there some circumstances that made the first meet different from the second? Like a different team with better swimmers?

If not, I actually think it's right for her to be a little worried. I don't think it's about achievement. I think when a kid was behaving or performing one way but then suddently changes, it's something to look into. Not because they need to a be a top swimmer, but maybe because something really is wrong with them.

I was on the swim team when I was in junior high. I went from being really dedicated to being distracted and not performing well. This happened right at the time we found out my mom was having an affair and my parents separated.

I actually had a few other instances like this when I was a child and I kind of resent it to this day that my parents "stayed out my business." I wish they would've asked me more questions about what was going on with me.

Maybe something legitimate happened to OP's child - problem at school? problem with friends?[/quote]

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