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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Of course they can. Anyone who wants to can change. But I guess the folks in this thread think that’s not what most cheaters want? I don’t know. I was a serial cheater for about a decade. We had kids and I’ve not done it in the ten years since. I have a wandering eye but I don’t go there. It’s not worth losing my family. [/quote] Were you caught? Is that why you stopped?[/quote] No, for better or worse I wasn't and I feel a lot of guilt about it. I've thought about telling my partner but have not been able to. [/quote] Do not tell her. Mid-life will test your resilience and resolve again, as the children get older and start to move on. Practice and build the love in your marriage often to prepare your strength against that temptation now.[/quote]
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