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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife and I can’t see eye to eye on anything. It looks like we’re headed for divorce. I am in good shape and have a good career. I’m ready to jump into dating when it’s over. How are people rebounding? What are the best sites? We’ve been cold to each other for so long, that id rather just learn tips than be scolded for moving on so quickly. Thank you. [/quote]

OP, if your post is sincere, I would say to take a pause in thinking about dating right away. You haven't even begun the divorce process yet. According to those I know who are divorced, it takes about two years. During this time I would urge you to get family counseling for you and your kids if you have any that are young enough to still live at home. I would also encourage you to get individual therapy to figure out what exactly went wrong in your marriage and how to not make the same mistake in your future relationships.

I would absolutely avoid any man who was only separated and bot fully divorced. And I would block any who was just considering getting divorced. Many people run in the other direction of separated but not divorced people on dating apps.[/quote]

NP:  This was my experience and it was dumb.   Not everyone is dating with a view to marriage etc plus it’s clear that having a legal document indicating that you’re officially divorced doesn’t automatically mean you’ve done the magical ‘work’ that some people have as a requirement.  
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