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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’re going to leave your husband just bc he doesn’t want kids? Kids are a ton of work and a total PITA. You do know that right? And it’s only worse in this crazy new world. Maybe try to connect better with your husband and stop trying to fill this obvious void in yourself. Don’t listen to all the women on this thread who are so desperately trying to lead you down the sad path they’ve already set out on. [/quote]

Oh stop. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a family. It’s very normal to want children and no one should be shamed for it.

Having children is wonderful. I’ve never found mine to be a PITA, they bring me so much joy.[/quote]

I am not the PP you are responding to, but I agree with her. They completely take over your life. Mine not planned. I don't feel any joy in any great amount at all. Tiny amounts, sure. Love, yes. But I would not do it again. The amount of joy does not make up for the amount of sacrifice. However, if she really wants a baby, she should leave and have a baby with someone else or on her own. When someone really wants them, it is different. However, I have many, many friends who are shocked having children is as hard as it is and are overwhelmed. I am shocked they did not realize in advance...I did...which is why kids were never on my to-do list. [/quote]

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