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[quote=Anonymous]Unpopular opinion probably (haven't read the thread yet) but if your DH is a decent man, go ahead and have your baby now.

I know you said there have been some financial issues and that he doesn't seem interested.

1) Finances should not preclude you from have a child (before anyone fusses we are talking about one baby, not 7 kids). People from all walks of life have children and make it work. If you wait until things are perfect it will likely be too late or you will end up need many thousands for fertility treatment. I can tell you want/need a baby badly.

2) Years ago when I was having my baby I remember the nurse who ran the birthing class said women need a baby but men don't 'need' a baby. I know this is not 100% true - but I get what she is saying and she is right. Your husband is not going to pine about a baby, his life is perfectly fine without a baby!!  If he is a good man, have your baby! Many men do not "get it". There is no time for arguing back and forth.[/quote]

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