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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think everyone should work for a few years before getting married. This is the only time in your life when you can spend YOUR money the way YOU want. If she persists with the engagement track, I would push her to be independent and move out on her own. Don’t baby her through this time. I guess you should also fill us in —does she have a job, health benefits, a car, etc.[/quote] +1 I married too young, before I had time to figure out what I really wanted in life. I became part of a couple before I was a fully developed person. I also did not not have the life experience to recognize that some of the dynamics in my ex-husband's family were red flags. It's hard to know if voicing your concerns to your daughter would backfire, but I wish someone had let me know back then that I didn't need to be in such a rush.[/quote]
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