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[quote=Anonymous]OP this is hard and I am sorry.

If your sister says she has friends who would totally do this for her, that sounds like a great solution.

I'd probably say "I'm sorry that I'm not in a place where I can do this in terms of age and biology (breastfeeding).  I am so glad your wonderful friends are willing to donate and I'm sure while it's hard sometimes to see they would agree that would be a better fit given my age and other factors.  I'm really looking forward to continuing our good relationship and supporting you on your journey."

Totally deflect and distract.  And then probably cool off but no point in confronting about it.  The whole thing can't be rational and hopefully she'll figure out a way to either find a suitable egg donor or accept the situation with two kids.  And if she can't there really isn't much you can say or do to make her get there except perhaps listening patiently.  Certainly donating eggs, would not make that happen and I agree with every other poster would be a terrible idea.
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