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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Second year in a row, he asked explicitly what I would like and then did NOT get it. And got something cheaper or uglier. [/quote]

We need more details! With links! What did you ask for and what did he get? [/quote]

Lol. Gladly. I asked for this: https://www.bodenusa.com/en-us/evie-linen-shirt-summit-stripe/sty-w0753-blu?cat=C1_S2_G18 and/or this: https://www.bodenusa.com/en-us/georgina-linen-top-white/sty-w0714-wht?cat=C1_S2_G18

Literally said, buy it soon because it will likely sell out. Spoiler: they sold out.

He got me ill fitting, cheaper, unflatting shirts from the mall only AFTER I lost it on him yesterday am when he said, "oh, you wanted a shirt or something for mother's day?" and it became apparent he had NOT ordered it or done jackshit of thought for the day. I didn't get breakfast or a break from the kiddo and instead was greeted with an attempt to supersede the plans we made to hang with mom to see MIL instead. Ofc I am happy to share the day with both grandmoms, but it makes me mad as HELL that I asked what he had planned for MIL, got no response and so proceeded to make plans days in advance.

Like, why ask if you aren't going to buy it? Men. Are. Trash. Just biding my time for an impending split at this point.[/quote]

This is so weird to me. What difference does it make if he buys you the shirt you picked out? Why wouldn’t you just buy it yourself? He could write you a check. [/quote]

You are clearly NOT married. LOL and yes, he ASKED!? Ofc I would have bought it for myself if he had not ASKED...thus implying that he would get it FOR me.[/quote]

I'm the PP and I am married, and I know different strokes for different folks but I don't get this one at all. We actually have separate finances mostly but it's all our money in the end. I don't see what difference it makes who clicks "checkout."[/quote]

So what I hear some of y'all saying is that wife should buy their own gifts to PRETEND to celebrate a silly, made up holiday even though husband ASKS what to get wife?
 Lol. [b]Some of y'all are so just so dumb and contradictory that now I understand why we have Republicans/Trump leading our country[/b]. [/quote]

What on earth are you talking about? Yes if someone asks what to get you they should follow through and get you what you ask for. That is true. However, the expectation that a husband needs to buy his wife a shirt for Mother’s Day is very odd to me. Next time he asks what to get, just remind him that last time ge asked you this he didn’t follow through so from now on you will just order your own gift and then he can wrap it for you.

There’s no doubt that your DH is an a#% but you can’t change that. Take care of your own gifts and maybe some of that resentment will go away.
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