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[quote=Anonymous]It is best to keep requests to a minimum. In some marriages and some divorces, fairness about her career vs his career and work travel and daytime parenting obligations is a really sensitive spot. Especially if she is trying to build her earning power to be adequate when it wasn't before. And sometimes people want 50-50 custody to minimize their financial obligations but then they try to get out of actually doing the parenting drudge work. Requests for "flexibility" can come with a lot of baggage and trigger resentment if there is a pattern like that. Best to enjoy the separateness of divorce and figure out your life for yourself.[/quote]
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