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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t really understand this.  Doesn’t he/she have a court appointed visitation schedule? Stick with making plans during the time you are scheduled to have the kids. Don’t deviate.  There is no need to ask or invoke her in any planning if you stick with the dates/times that are appointed to you[/quote]

+1.  This was my thought as well.  I guess I’ve seen lots of scenarios where the kids can’t attend something because the ex has custody those dates and didn’t want to change things around for them to attend. While it sucks, they are 100% within their rights to stick to the schedule, doesn’t matter if their ex has been flexible in the past or if the person their ex is dating has an ex-spouse that is very flexible about plans.  What is his week/days he has custody in the summer?  Can he plan around that?

He can’t force his ex-wife to change around her court appointed visitation schedule to fit his schedule and your vacation plans with him.  He can choose not to be flexible with her but no guarantee that tactic would cause her to be flexible with him, it could instead stir up drama.[/quote]

Being flexible for the kids is one thing.  Being flexible for your ex's job or because his girlfriend wants it is different.  I'm not the mom of his job or his girlfriend.  I only have so much flexibility in my life and I save it for the kids.[/quote]

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