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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t have any trouble attracting professional men. I have dates with two physicians this weekend. They can definitely sniff out who wants them for their money and prestige, and aren’t interested in those women. I make my own money, and I’m very feminist, so the last thing I want is a man’s money. They appreciate that.

What’s more challenging is finding men who will be equal partners and make me a priority. The problem with the professional men is that their career will always come first, no exceptions. I’m not really interested in that. I’d rather be with someone who makes less but is a good partner. [/quote]

What do you think makes you attractive to professional men?[/quote]

I treat them like human beings and not ATMs. I don’t like it when men objectify me and pursue me for sex, so I don’t objectify them and pursue them for money.

I have a career of my own and I’m low maintenance/laid back. I have a sense of humor. [b]I ask them to go hiking for dates instead of a fancy dinner or drinks.[/b] I don’t try to jump through hoops in a desperate attempt to get a rich man to want me.

For sure not all guys are into me. There are plenty who want more of a trophy, and that’s not me.

Basically just be a good, kind person. [/quote]
What happened with these guys to where you’re still looking online? [/quote]

I'm super picky  :lol:

I have a fulfilling, rewarding life. If I'm going to commit to someone, they need to add to my life, but I find most men take away from it.[/quote]
I say this with all kindness, but the guys on dating apps aren't the problem. I absolutely agree that many men aren't good for you but in the end you only have to make it work with one (1). Your pickiness at an age and state of life where no one can afford to be picky proves [b]you don't *really* want to be with a man in any serious manner, [/b]which is perfectly okay--it's your life, but you're going to have to own it.
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PP here, and yup, that's pretty much it!

I have a great life with amazing relationships. I have purpose, meaning, and a career I love. I'm okay with using a sperm donor for having children, and outsourcing as needed.

I want to surround myself with people that lift me up and empower me, which is what my friends and family do. If I find a man who can do that, I'm happy to be in a relationship with them. But so far, I haven't found any that do it at the level I require. And life's way too short to waste time on people who drag you down.

In the meantime, I have fun dating. I like meeting new people and having new experiences. I'm certainly not bitter about not finding the perfect man.[/quote]

You sound incredibly high maintenance[/quote]

Ha! Yep, in a lot of ways, I am. It's served me well![/quote]

You sound incredibly icy. [/quote]

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