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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the PP wit the 7 year denial. It does get better, but that kind of long term rejection changes the relationship permanently. You will never be what you hoped to be because of this issue even if she turned into a nympho overnight. It isn't the sex but the ego crushing rejection over years by the person you hold most dear that makes you change. If I would have known that mine would last 7 years, I would have cheated and felt fine about it. I had no idea I would suffer that long, and so I didn't, but I am not proud of that, and I would be guiltless now looking back if I had an affair. I hate that I carry this around with me. I hated reading your post and having the bitterness come back so vividly just from your story reminding me of mine. My wife has made vast improvements and I am comfortable where we are at, but I resent her from stealing a hugely important chunk of my life from me. I will never get those years back. Her selfishness stole from me something I will never get back. [/quote]

As a woman, I am finding this perspective really interesting.  I am in a 1x a week marriage, sometimes more, sometimes less, but my husband would like sex more often.  These posts have really made me look at the whole thing with much more sensitivity towards my spouse.  [/quote]

Woman here. No wonder men cheat. Are you really this clueless?[/quote]No not clueless, and not in a sexless marriage either.  What do you mean? Why would my husband cheat? We are having sex andPlan to be aware that we may need even more frequency.   [/quote]

I can't believe you didn't realize that sexually deprived spouses often have this POV.  Why weren't you incredibly sensitive to your spouse before reading this post?[/quote]

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