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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - First of all, don't listen to these people. 55 is not old. My father is in his 70s and is very active. Goes to the gym regularly, travels, is in excellent health and the whole nine. I know an 80 year old man who travels and drives a motorcycle still. If you don't mind a man 30 years your senior then please don't allow these people's negative comments deter you. Maybe they're all married to lazy, fat ass men with a whole slew of health issues and who aren't aging gracefully. It happens. [b]Funny thing is, many of these women who are commenting are probably pushing 50 themselves.[/b] No one is promised tomorrow. [b]You could marry someone 28, 35, 42 or whatever and they could drop dead in a week.[/b] No one knows the future. Live your best life, and for goodness sakes, stay off DCUM. [/quote]

52yo here. I'm commenting, because I know what it's like to be in my 50s and to f*** a man in his 50s. Even if one is fit and active, skin thins, sags, and becomes spotty. Head hair thins, and wiry hairs pops up in new places. Penises are more temperamental and fragile. When you're both of similar ages, it's less bothersome, because you're aging at an equal pace, and you've got your own things going-on. A 25yo shouldn't waste her youth on 55yo d***, IMO.

Yes, tragedies happen and a younger partner could die or suffer a life-changing accident, but the odds are in the younger person's favor. This is a useless point.

OP, you're either a gold-digger or you have daddy issues, and this is how others see you. Besides your youth, this is why he's attracted to you. He has all the power in the relationship. If this doesn't bother you, don't sweat it. Go ahead and marry him. Don't have affairs, because you will get nothing if you get caught and you divorce. You'll want the security of an heir if your benefactor is as rich as you say he is. Don't have children, though. Your choice is a selfish one, and you alone should live with it. Besides, as another commenter has mentioned, at 55, his genetic contribution is no longer the best. 
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