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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’ve got to outsource this. You should probably have a nanny anyway, given you have two young kids with special needs.

I have 2 young kids, ages 4 and 2. The 2 year old has significant delays. And we just “finished” potty training him.

I’ll tell you it’s in the top 5 hardest things I’ve ever done. But it is done.

It took 2 months. And for those 2 months, I cried almost daily. And we literally divided the day into shifts between nanny, myself, DH, and teenagers we hired from the neighborhood.

During your “shift”, the ONLY THING YOU DO is watch the kid. You don’t make food. You don’t touch your phone. You don’t go to the park. You are doing NOTHING except watching the child.

Oh and we kept him naked. And followed him around with a potty.

It was awful and hard core and expensive and miserable.

I acknowledge I am extraordinarily privileged to have been able to do this at all.

But I know, FOR CERTAIN, that this is what it was going to take and probably even more if we waited til 3. There was no way but forward.

Just saying it was hell. But you need someone to help you do it. Throw $10k at this and make it go away. [/quote]

Any recommendations for how to go about finding a nanny for this? We had a nanny for a while early in COVID. That was before some the therapies his brother started. Perhaps the nanny wasn't very good, but to be fair, the brother can be violent and destructive, so her hands were full. We could manage a full-time nanny for the potty training child temporarily, but certainly not for long.[/quote]

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