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[quote=Anonymous]The nanny is right on.

My dad was like that too. He completely checked out even before divorced. My mom encourage contact but he never wanted to. He never even flight for custody but he also didn’t want to pay child support. Plain simple explanation; he is just a selfish person who only love himself. I once asked him why did he do what he did. He simply said I didn’t want any kid. Your mom wanted all four of you. ( how irresponsible!)

It is what it is. He is just a human with lots of flaws. 
I grew up perfectly fine with my mom unconditional love. Never need therapy. I m 40 years old now, with loving  DH DS and successful career.lesson I learned is those who doesn’t love you, you don’t them in your life. They rather get out then stay in your life to cause more pain. I didn’t lose a father, I just let a person who couldn’t care less for me out of my life. 
(FYI  my father and I still keep in touch. He is an okay grand pa, he loves entertaining my kid when we visit. But our relationship is very superficial and cordial) [/quote]

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