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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Life takes care of trash.

Cheaters are unhappy and continually look for outside fixes like strange D@ck to get to fix it.  They will continue to be miserable because they never face the hard issues or deal with their underlying low self esteem or mental issues.

Karma will handle it.

If you live a life of lies and continual lily trying to remember your cover story, you will never have peace.  They also can’t trust others because of the way they live their own lives.[/quote]
Sometimes it takes a little nudge for karma to happen.  I feel absolutely zero guilt in notifying both XH’s and his AP’s work colleagues and supervisors of their affair.  I’m just helping them own it.  That it effects their security clearances is not my concern.  Their actions, their consequences.[/quote]

It’s just such a crazy move. It’s hard to understand a personality that would care about something like this. [/quote]
Agree.  Deciding to become an adulterer is a crazy move![/quote]

It’s not a power move to expect colleagues to give a shit about your marriage. It’s tacky and weak, and will certainly make the person screeching about her betrayal look like an utter crackpot and loser. I’m not an OW, but I have been at a workplace where a spouse did this and no one cared after like a week of gossip. Believe what you will, but it’s not a winning look, and that is independent of the lack of ethics in adultery.  Keep your shit private.[/quote]
Nope!  I’ll never see the adulterers’ colleagues again.  Their opinion of me means nothing.  The adulterers on the other hand had professional reputations to worry about and if I negatively affected how their supervisors and colleagues view them, that is good enough for me.  It’s their own actions that brought this on, not mine.[/quote]

You didn’t.  Plenty of CEOs are/were cheaters.  It only makes you look crazy and makes people sympathize with the cheater for cheating[/quote]

That's the crazy part!  So many cheaters in this world.  I knew that my so-called friends who supported my cheating ex were either cheaters themselves or had been cheated on and accepted the betrayal of their own spouse so they felt uncomfortable consoling me. You never know who walks among us.  
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Agree with the PP who says it's tacky, weak and crazy to do this. We had this happen and everyone thought the person was deranged. The hot gossip was entertaining for a few days but one colleague even remarked how he'd cheat on that level of crazy too and sympathized with our cheating coworker.

Maybe they felt uncomfortable consoling you because you were acting completely unhinged. [/quote]

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