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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just sent her a few videos of my kids on Facebook messenger and said to please share with FIL. She responds “it seems like your phone is functioning just fine. Why don’t you text him yourself?” To which I said[b] DH doesn’t like me contacting his dad[/b] and she wrote back “That’s between you and DH. I’m not your messenger. Every time you message me, it’s a directive to buy something or show FIL videos of DH drunk or your kids. It’s honestly rubbing me the wrong way that you don’t even ask about me but contact me with instructions every single time. You have FIL’s cell phone so you can send him the videos directly.” I’m annoyed that she couldn’t just say ok but had to lecture me like this. [b]Do I tell FIL?[/b] [/quote]

So, you won't contact FIL directly because your husband doesn't like it, but you are considering doing it to tell him that MIL won't pass along your messages?  [/quote]

OP here. I'll tell him so that he'll know that I sent her videos of his grandkids and she wouldn't have a choice but to let him see them. [/quote]

This is very misogynistic of you. Your DH doesn’t want you contacting his father, but instead of ignoring that to send him videos of his grandkids, you’re willing to ignoring it to get your Step MIL “in trouble” for not forwarding those videos to him? It’s not her job to be your go between, or to manage her HUSBAND’S relationship with HIS son/DIL/grandchildren. The fact that you are only going to contacting him to throw her under the bus is sad.[/quote]

Fortunately OP is a troll so none of this is really happening.[/quote]

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