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[quote=Anonymous]So giving everyone the benefit of the doubt ... it sounds like SIL just considers it very important at this moment in time to talk about race and have her experience as a minority out in the open in an otherwise all-white setting. If she’s adopted from Korea that might be an additional aspect. What OP should keep in mind is that by saying “that’s racist” or “you are being racist” does not mean you’re KKK. It means you offended her. If you want to have a good relationship with her (and your brother) you’re going to have to stretch a little and open the door to talk to her about this stuff. She’s telling you it’s important to her. Was she wrong to accuse you of being racist for an innocent act on your part? Of course. But again - if you want to have a good relationship you’ll have to show her you care about her experience. It’s entirely possible she’s batsh*t and manipulative. But maybe not. [/quote]
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