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[quote=Anonymous]The dynamics around shared vacation places are always tricky. My DH and I both grew up going on vacation to a place we love. We ended up buying our own place in each location. He’s the black sheep in his family (for no reason at all other than crazy/codependent parents) and it annoyed all of them to no end that we now have a very nice place in the area we don’t need to share with the rest of them. My family is just thrilled we have xtra room for our extended family at the family place we’ve been going to for 80+ years, as are we. I’m sad that OP’s family sounds more like DH’s. In her shoes, I’d stop contributing, look for her own family place, and look for a different place to celebrate DD’s bday. The MIL sounds very disappointing, but you just have to take people that age as they come. [/quote]
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