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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for the varied responses. I do not begrudge my sister her new shiny fancy life with rich people. I am just sad that she thinks her in laws are better than our parents simply because they were lucky enough to have been in America for generations. And I am upset that she thinks our poor generous dad who sacrificed his own mental health and financial stability to give us opportunities he never had. [b]And it is because of these opportunities my sister and I can mingle with and for her, to finally marry a rich guy. [/b]

Now that she feels that she has "established herself" she thinks her family of origin is "toxic" and "messy" and her "dad made no plans and a mess of everything and she is too young to support her mom dad and other siblings."

Meanwhile I was also concerned that she went ahead with her wedding planning at a fancy venue that her in laws paid for while my dad lost his post retirement job back home and my parents had no money to feed themselves. When I told her it may be insensitive to plan and have a lavish wedding while your parents and younger sibling literally do not have food to eat. She cut me out for a few months and secretly continued to plan her wedding with her MIL and SIL.

Its been a lot. [b]I don't know if I am indeed the toxic one[/b], but either way, it was very painful to see her plan and get married without any consideration for our family or parents.

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You are incredibly toxic. The more I read your posts, the more I think your sister is one smart lady. I'm not going to repeat everything that's already been said here...because clearly it goes over your head. I hope your sister has the good sense to stay far, far away.
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Gross.[/quote]

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