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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for the varied responses. I do not begrudge my sister her new shiny fancy life with rich people. I am just sad that she thinks her in laws are better than our parents simply because they were lucky enough to have been in America for generations. And I am upset that she thinks our poor generous dad who sacrificed his own mental health and financial stability to give us opportunities he never had. And it is because of these opportunities my sister and I can mingle with and for her, to finally marry a rich guy.

Now that she feels that she has "established herself" she thinks her family of origin is "toxic" and "messy" and her "dad made no plans and a mess of everything and she is too young to support her mom dad and other siblings."

Meanwhile I was also concerned that she went ahead with her wedding planning at a fancy venue that her in laws paid for while my dad lost his post retirement job back home and my parents had no money to feed themselves. When I told her it may be insensitive to plan and have a lavish wedding while your parents and younger sibling literally do not have food to eat. She cut me out for a few months and secretly continued to plan her wedding with her MIL and SIL.

Its been a lot. [b]I don't know if I am indeed the toxic one[/b], but either way, it was very painful to see her plan and get married without any consideration for our family or parents.

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You are incredibly toxic. The more I read your posts, the more I think your sister is one smart lady. I'm not going to repeat everything that's already been said here...because clearly it goes over your head. I hope your sister has the good sense to stay far, far away.
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