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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everyone - the couple is still MARRIED! Her husband wants to move away to his mistress and insists on overnights. For that he needs his wife's consent, or a temporary custody agreement/court order. It seems to me the husband insists on doing it "his way" without any legal rights to do so or any expense. Mom can just as easily say no to her child leaving the marital home stating overnights with a stranger, basically. Just like she can say no to field trips, overnight camps etc

Besides, all those 50/50 fans - it doesn't look like AP or dad even want the child 50/50. They only want to "host" once in a while. You can't force 50/50 even via court on any parent. And it will be unhealthy and psychologically  damaging for the child to be in a household where he's not wanted.[/quote]

No, he doesn't need her consent or an order.  As a parent you can do what you want until there is an order.  No one is saying that he is not wanted in the other household.  Dad is wanting every other weekend as its easy but why agree and make it easy on him.  There are no allegations of abuse or  neglect,  just poor marital behavior.  Mom isn't going to get to control what happens on Dad's time.  You are setting this up for a horrible custody battle when that money can be better spent on the child.[/quote]

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