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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]why why would a man bother taking propecia if it makes him lose his libido? Bald is just fine!

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Because in this case it diminishing his libido is probably a feature, not a bug. It's not easy when you want more sex than your partner does. Ask me how I know!

signed,
wife who adores her low libido husband, but also recognizes the challenges[/quote]

But why do people marry people with low drives (op said she's always had a low drive) if sex is important to them? Sex is very important to me and I can't imagine even dating a guy with a low drive, let alone bothering to marry him. This is just a negative consequence of people "settling" for each other. Sexual mismatch just causes problems later on.[/quote]

I think you answered your own question, maybe? I am the PP and I married my husband despite our mismatch because there are other things I value more, and also I'd dated enough to know that this was a special person who would make my life better and be a great companion.

No one person is going to be everything you want in life. Sometimes you make tradeoffs because you find someone who you want to be with, even still.

If you'd rather stay single while looking for the person who is a great partner and a great sexual partner, that is a reasonable choice, too! I'm grateful every day I found my husband, and that he wants to be with me, even with the tradeoffs that entails.[/quote]

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