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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your ILs are so racists, what makes you think they'd want your kids around?  Start declining to attend events on your husband's side and keep the kids with you.  Make it a habit/routine and when you divorce just offer to keep them whenever there's an event on that side.  Based on what you've said about your husband, I'm sure he'd be happy not to have to deal with it.

I also want to address something you said: 
[quote]I don't believe breaking up their family is the best move[/quote]

Your 'family' is already broken up whether you divorce/live together or not.  Your children will always have a father but you guys aren't a 'family'.  [/quote]
OP here. My children are the spit and image of my FIL, just with golden skin. FIL gets off on parading them around as his mixed mini-mes and he loves everything he thinks they get from him. But the moment they act up in any way, that’s the non-white side coming out, according to him (and late MIL). The family wants the kids around and they want to bash their non-white side too. I’m not having that. [/quote]

First, I love that you know it's not "spitting image."  That tickles me as an editor.

Second, what is it with these nasty racists who fetishize physical aspects of minorities.  Ugh.  There was a thread on this recently.[/quote]

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