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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He found someone else that he likes enough to be in a real relationship with. He was just using you for sex. Now that he is having sex with someone he likes enough to be exclusive with, he doesn’t want you in his life. If you can’t deal with that, don’t have friends with benefits.[/quote]

[b]Yep. You were used for sex[/b].

Did you go out to dinners, concerts, trips in those 8 years or was it just in the bedroom/hook-ups/bootie calls?

Did you ever meet any of his friends or family member?  8 years is almost a decade and if the answer is “no”, you were hidden for a reason.  That reason is most likely he was married, in a committed relationship or didn’t want to be seen with you in public.[/quote]

I don't understand how any person who knowingly enters into a FWB situation is "used."  What adult does not understand that FWB is more often than not FB (F buddies) which has nothing to do with friendship?  It's about sex. No strings sex.  Period.  When that's what you sign up for, that's what you get.  No one is using you.  I'm honestly sorry you are hurting, OP.  I wouldn't enter into this kind of situation because I know myself--I'd be hurt if the other person showed they didn't care about my feelings but I would know that was part of the set-up and it's why I wouldn't expose myself to it.  Some people can handle (truly handle) no-strings.  I'm not one of those people.  I develop attachments.[/quote]

All normals develop attachments. That is how we survive as a species and human race. Loners and lone wolfs dont breed a future. Attachments and bonds are inherently relevant even on a practical level.[/quote]

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