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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What exactly did she say when she contacted you?[/quote]  This. And then we can tell you how we'd respond. It really depends on what she said.  And was it by text, email, or did she leave a voicemail?[/quote]

OP here. It was via text. Aside from pandemic-related pleasantries, it said, "You may have heard that J and I have made the painful decision to divorce. This has really thrown me for a loop, and I could really use a friend to talk to right now. Do you have some time to chat in the next few days?"

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I don't think I would even respond to a text like that. sounds like she did not even ask you how are you doing.  she dump you at the time of your need, disappeared for years and then came back just to ask you to talk about her problems? she is calling you a friend but she has not been in touch for years. I would not respond at all, or just text her like the other poster said, something like "sorry to hear about your divorce,  take care". I would not text any reference to the fact that you were hurt that she dumped you or anything, I would not waste any more time on this person, going back and forth on what happened in the past. you moved on so just enjoy your true friends. [/quote]

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