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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you tried hanging out with just her, or is it always large family gatherings?  Some people do better one on one.  Also, might give you a chance to build a better relationship with her.  I find large family gatherings a waste of time.  15 minute conversations with 10 people doesn't = a relationship IMO.  Nor does one large group conversation where everyone is just cracking jokes, but that's just my family.[/quote]

OP here. Sure I tried. We all tried. We figured we'd just invite her out one on one. Nope, doesn't budge. She will literally sit in a coffee shop and answer "Yes/No". She doesn't seem uncomfortable. She never initiates our meetings. I can't remember last time she called any of us or texted a simple "hey, what's up?" We always end up reaching out ourselves. Our last straw was with the baby. I get it, it's COVID, but at least send us pictures. If you need help, we can help. It hurts to be shut down like this. [/quote]

OP, how much of your life do you spend thinking about this?

It sounds like she wants to be left alone, why is it such a problem to just leave her alone?

Again, any insight as to why someone you call "odd" doesn't want to have anything to do with you?
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