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[quote=Anonymous]I am a middle child and also very protective of my privacy. It comes from observing what happens when one shares with parents and other family members. I have also noticed that people who think they are nonjudgemental are often the opposite, even if they don’t say it directly or in front of you. Parents show favoritism by talking more about a favored child, saying how much or little a child resembles them, supporting activities and behaviors that please them, “lighting up” when one child calls or appears and paying less attention to another, etc. A sensitive, observant child will notice and not feel safe to share and instead withdraw inside themselves until they are able to physically do so. Only people who they find to accept them truly for themselves will truly know them and share their lives. [/quote]
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