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[quote=Anonymous]I think you need a good reason to force your DH to stop doing something that he finds relaxing.

You mention being an example to the kids. That's fair, but only if it affects his parenting or they notice. Not clear that they do notice, and it sounds like he is a good parent.

You are worried about his health? You don't really talk about that, and that is legitimate, but not clear that this is affecting his health more than many other things that are common -- drinking, junk food, sedentary lifestyle.

You are worried that it is just papering over deeper mental issues? Possibly. Certainly the pandemic is making things worse, and maybe he's just trying to get help with anxiety, boredom, etc. But certainly threatening divorce is the wrong approach if you are worried about his mental issues.

It sounds like you don't like it and have vague misgivings about it, and that you don't like that he doesn't quit when you ask him to. I think that absent some good reason to ask him to stop, you are just being controlling. Do you have a history of being controlling? Has your DH or anyone else in your life suggested you are a control freak?[/quote]

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