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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I think you are incorrectly framing your problem. Your husband is willing to get a vasectomy as a form of permanent birth control.

Your problem is not his unwillingness to get a vasectomy, its that he wants another kid. That is a really difficult problem and I think you should probably go to therapy to work it out. [/quote]

Perhaps.

While most married men do get one, some do not and never state why.  Could be uninformed, scared, may want more Kids in the future if things change. [/quote]

OP has said he wants to wait a year to make sure she's sure and then he would get one. The problem is not the V. And I am someone who probably would have divorced my husband had he been unwilling to get one.[/quote]

Ok then, so one year of condoms or BC and then they can both do a final gut check of kid 3, then get fax or not.

Sounds like Op and her husband have an OK plan, if they stick to it. [/quote]

OP is not ok with that plan. Her post is that she's mad that the DH doesn't want the V right now.

I am a woman that has a tough time on hormonal birth control and who had horrific absolute nightmare pregnancies. I have three kids and had my husband not been willing to take one for the team after everything he's seen me go through it would have been like, relationship ending. I have a general belief that women shoulder far too much implied responsibility for birth control from far too young an age and that men are, for the most part, whiny little b's about most of this.

Just to explain that my perspective on most of these posts are something like, MEN WHO WILL NOT GET VASECTOMIES ARE ENORMOUS LOSERS.

But this is not what is happening here, and I think OP framing it that way makes me more suspicious overall of her good intent.

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