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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I think you are incorrectly framing your problem. Your husband is willing to get a vasectomy as a form of permanent birth control. Your problem is not his unwillingness to get a vasectomy, its that he wants another kid. That is a really difficult problem and I think you should probably go to therapy to work it out. [/quote] Perhaps. While most married men do get one, some do not and never state why. Could be uninformed, scared, may want more Kids in the future if things change. [/quote] OP has said he wants to wait a year to make sure she's sure and then he would get one. The problem is not the V. And I am someone who probably would have divorced my husband had he been unwilling to get one.[/quote] Ok then, so one year of condoms or BC and then they can both do a final gut check of kid 3, then get fax or not. Sounds like Op and her husband have an OK plan, if they stick to it. [/quote]
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