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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hard to say without knowing what the fight was about. We don’t know either side of the story. [/quote]

Agree. Maybe she cheated?

When I get mad I may not reach out or answer a text, because what is there to say, really, after someone does something shitty to you and shows that they don't care about you?[/quote]

So then the silent treatment is a way to break up.  That's all it is.  It is not an acceptable way to react if you want to stay dating someone.  If someone gave me the silent treatment, I assumed we were broken up, and acted accordingly.  [/quote]

Well, if you did something shitty and didn't apologize, what am I obligated to say? It is not my problem to fix. [/quote]

Breaking up by the silent treatment is actually really immature.  If someone has done something awful talk to them about it, if they don't apologise then that's your answer, tell them it isn't working and walk away.

Going silent is simply that you can't communicate effectively.  If you are really mad about something, it is normal to say you may need some space to cool down however if you need a few days to cool down when you have been dating for 5 months, not good, the relationship isn't working.  Even in marriage needing to cool down for a few days isn't normal.  [/quote]

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