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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, I never said this in my post about considering firing her. That is outrageous.

I'm asking for advice if this is worth bringing up to my DH??[/quote]

Yes.  He needs a filter.  Talking about someone other than his wife in a sexual way to others is inappropriate/bad judgment.  Sure, he can find her attractive (after all, she is), but calling her “hot” ups the creep factor.  That’s just not a way a married man should be talking about his nanny, nor is it the way an employer should be talking about his employee.[/quote]

I’m a woman and this is exactly why men don’t talk to us 
Let it go[/quote]

No, men do talk to women. Little boys masquerading as men  who believe they should have no accountability don't talk to women or talk  about women like this. DH needs to get a filter, and they are all lucky , that hopefully, nanny doesn't know they are talking about her like this or they could have a  legal problem on their hands.[/quote]

You sound strict, bossy, and not very light-hearted about where this scenario could go. I am going to send you an e-hug. 🤗[/quote]

A dad here. +1 for DH wasn't acting mature. He should have been grown up enough to shut down this conversation with his friend objectifying the nanny. But we also don't know exactly what was said. A simple, "Yeah, I guess." to his friends she's hot or did DH say "F' yeah I'd love to xxx...!"

OP, you know your DH. How would bringing this with DH go? Is he the type to listen and learn, or blow up/denial? If it's eating away at you, figure out why and you owe it to yourself to let him know that. This is not all about him.[/quote]

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