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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When people show you who they are, believe them.

[b]He is emotionally close to his ex.  That’s simply the fact of the matter.  You have to decide whether you’re okay with that or not. [/b]  Either accept it or move on, as he’s made it clear this is a relationship that matters to him and will continue.

I know I wouldn’t be happy with it, but that’s me.  You have to make a decision for yourself.  [/quote]

And this doesn't mean it's wrong.  It's fine for it to bother you, but it is not fine to characterize this as him doing something wrong, or doing something to you.  It is neither.

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eh, I think the BF is doing something wrong. Consciously or not, he is emotionally entangled with another woman, and refusing to admit it to OP and maybe to himself. Instead of actually addressing the issue, he deflects by claiming his behavior is excuses because OP has contact with her ex. When they are totally different and unrelated scenarios.

my opinion is that it’s fine to have opposite gender friends, fine to talk with exes every so often, but being emotionally dependent on an opposite gender friend is an issue, and an absolute problem if that “friend” is an ex. [/quote]

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