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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are you looking for here, OP?

It's possible he's BSing you about being shocked about their reaction.

It's also possible he was truly shocked despite what you may think he knows his family better than you and maybe his siblings are generally more progressive.

And if he described you as you are presenting yourself here I'd tell him to get out too and I'm American and very liberal.

To say the least, you seem very immature.

You both dodged a bullet here.

I suggest you press pause on dating and see a therapist to sort yourself.

And finally, your kids don't need to meet every man your banging.[/quote]

OP here: I do not understand your last two sentences. I do not need to see a therapist. It is okay for me to be surprised by a 180-degree switch and sad because it was going so well.

My kids will never meet any man unless I am dating for at least 2 years and considering marriage. I have no idea where you got the idea he met my kids. No freaking way. Only if it is a super serious stage will my kids meet anyone. [/quote]

I'm glad you wouldn't bring your kids around your fligs. Your previous comments made it seems  like you would.

As for therapy your  reaction is disproportionate to the situation. I suspect you have issues with boundaries, self-esteem managing expectations, you also come across as needlessly aggresive. Therapy would be beneficial to you personaly  and help you in future relationships.[/quote]

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