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Reply to "Everything was great for 6 months and then family finds out and boom: he ends it. Advice?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, the outcome of this relationship does NOT prove your theory that your chances of “starting over” are ruined. I mean yes, you can’t go back in a time machine and erase the past, but you need to make peace with that rather than looking back in bitter regret. You can still have a happy, fulfilling relationship (although if you start out at the gate saying you will never marry or tell your family about a partner, then this might be a self-fulfilling prophecy). So no, this relationship didn’t prove ANYTHING except this is the wrong guy...which isn’t an uncommon outcome when dating. There may be something else going on that he’s not telling you, or he might be a commitment-phobe, or it might just be his siblings’ reaction...but I would advise you to stop looking at it as confirmation that your choice to marry all those years ago is coming back to bite you again. That is a cognitive distortion that will keep you feeling helpless and defeated. [/quote]
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