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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah, I’ve gotta agree that you two need to learn to communicate better. You kind of lost me at “it’s not fair” that she said no, and quite frankly it makes me a bit concerned for *her*, if this is the way you react to her expressing her needs.

It would be extremely premature to break up over this without really sitting down and hashing out both of your thoughts, feelings, hopes and expectations, and it’s essential that you’re able to do that if you’re to have a healthy future together.

I’m wondering - does she still envision getting engaged at the year mark, even if you’re not yet living together? I doesn’t sound like you’re really understanding where she’s coming from.

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OP here. People are trying to paint me as a villain on here. I was very upfront with what I wanted. We have talked many times ( at least a handful) since 3 months about how serious we wanted to get and where we wanted to be headed, etc. Last week I talked to her about moving in with me because her lease is going to be up at the end of the month. She said she was comfortable with it. Then I asked her last night again and she said no. She is allowed to change her mind, but telling me more than once ( we also had the moving in conversation multiple times) she was fine moving in after he lease is up, then saying no, makes me question how serious she is about us.

She said she wanted to get engaged by 1 year but that’s not going to happen. I don’t feel comfortable asking her that now if I’m having doubts how serious she is about the relationship.

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