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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm early 50's, male, married, and about a 7.5/10 for looks and make about 110K.

This thread is definitely telling me I should stay in my somewhat unhappy marriage, or if I can't, to embrace being alone as a gift from God.[/quote]

That is correct. My fed dh has a number of single older male fed co-workers who apparently thought getting divorced in middle age was a great idea. They are still alone and the young women they flirt with are just creeped out. [/quote]

They are most likely broke slobs. If you are decent looking and have halfway decent social skills, you can do ok, even in the DC area. If he is smart, he will head to South America or SE Asia and have a field day. [/quote]

Oh please no! No 90 day fiance fiasco. In my experience and observations the majority of modern mail order brides leave the husband in a few weeks or a few years and have major issues. [/quote]

Let be real - All the guys on 90 day fiance are chosen because they have social and emotional issues that make for great TV.  Any normal American guy dating abroad is treated like a celebrity.  I'll seen it firsthand and it's hard to believe until you experience it.  [/quote]

Yeah, treated like a celebrity and used for his money and citizenship. Then most of the pretty young women bail. I’m Eastern European (no, not a mail order bride, I came here as a kid) and I’ve seen this so many times. Older out of shape guy, beautiful young woman from a struggling country, meet online and then in person, love at first sight... til she is a citizen or meets another guy or gets an awesome job willing to sponsor her. [/quote]

Exactly. These American guys are delusional. What makes them think someone out of their league in another country would make them so interested in them? If they think its their looks and personality they are alarmingly naive and delusional.[/quote]

Based on all the threads on DCUM, it's clear that most US women are only interested financial security too.  If you're going to date a gold digger, it might as well be a Brazilian model.[/quote]

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