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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was 34 in a stable marriage, financially stable, two stable jobs, when I was surprised to find I was 7 weeks pregnant. There's none of the typical reasons we couldn't or shouldn't have a child, but I simply did not want to be pregnant and did not want a child. I chose a medical abortion. Every once in a while I think "what if," but ultimately I have zero regrets.[/quote] Did you tell your husband![/quote] Yes, I told him the day I found out. I considered not telling him because my mind was made up before I peed on the stick. But he was supportive and I'm glad I did.[/quote] My point is to share that you don't need a reason for an abortion other than simply wanting one. Whatever you choose is OK. We're fertile for 30 years with 12-13 opportunities to conceive a year, and those are some tough odds to not have an oops. I will add--I went to Carafem and highly recommend them. While I didn't experience that much pain, they offered more than sufficient pain control. There were no protestors, it's in an office building. No waiting in a crowded room. Actually no waiting at all. I didn't cross paths with a single other patient.[/quote]
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