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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^wow. Does your husband visit with the ex-affair partner when kids visit ?[/quote]

How do you even explain that to kids in the context of your marriage?  Some other lady is giving birth to their sister, but you were married the entire time?

That is unavoidable when they are older.  I’m so sorry.  That has to be incredibly tough.[/quote]

It's not ideal, of course. There are many small annoyances. But I've put in the boundaries that work for me.  I don't see it as my job to explain it to the kids.  DH brought this situation about so it's on him to explain it. I'll support as necessary.  I'm sure we'll figure out something that works for everyone.[/quote]

As teens they can do the math and realize this sibling was conceived abs birthed during your marriage.  Please be aware, they might need counseling to deal with this deceit and lies from your spouse.  Kids internalize a lot...and it comes out in their adult relationships later in life.[/quote]

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